I don't encourage conflicts and fights, I disapprove them. What do you do when you see conflicts between 2 people?
A: Stop the fight and try to calm them down;
B: Talk to both or one of them after the conflict is over;
C: Go Against the person you think is in the wrong;
D: Stare and watch;
E: Totally ignore their existence.
People Who Chooses A are those outspoken, outgoing ones. They dare to intervene and not worry about themselves, but the others around. They are willing to help if they see trouble. A true friend one would say.
People Who Chooses B are low-profile. They wouldn't want to intervene because they themselves are worried for both themselves and the 2 people. They know right from wrong, but is afraid to say them when many people are around.
People Who Chooses C are simply one-sided. They don't look at the problem, and decided to take their stand, even when it leads them to a disadvantage. Sometimes these type of people have something a against the opposing party, and decided to join the forces of the one against it. They are the type of friends who thinks they are helping, yet only making things worst.
People Who Chooses D are cowards, busybodies or just total strangers. They either know what's happening, or they don't. They know what to do, but just don't want to voice out. They are more concerned about themselves them others. Friends like this depends. Some of them are the good ones, just shy. While the others just watch and pretend nothing happened.
People Who Chooses E are fuck ass. They think that it isn't their problem, so they walk away, or they are too afraid to do anything. Friends like this can't be thrown into the rubbish chute.
I'm more of B and D types than A. So what's your answer?
Chinese New Year Day 1. Went to the temple to pray first. I visited my godparents, both my grandmothers, and my great grandmother. Got many hongbaos but haven't counted them.
Today's Choice Of Song: I'll Be There For You From Friends
Guess What? Nothing.
*Hey you, Yah you, read this* [The Takes] Take 1: Nothing personal, just something worth saying. Take 2: Nothing personal, just something logical. Take 3: Nothing personal, just an expression. Take 4: Nothing personal, just thoughts. Take 5: Nothing personal, just feedback & advice. Take 6: Nothing personal, just me. Take 7: Nothing personal, just a comment. Take 8: Nothing personal, just let go. Take 9: Nothing personal, just understand. Final Take: Nothing personal, so correct me :)
About Me
- Glen a.k.a Titiny Qwerz™
- Last day of Pieces, the start of Aries (20th March 1993). Enjoys life as well as think about it. Contemplates on many things, and never always fixed to a single answer, as anything can happen. Humble, weird and funny, but underneath is intelligences and experience, yet he strives for more. Never liked losing friends, but understands that impermanence is present. Hotmail:glen-titinyqwerz@hotmail.com
Monday, January 26, 2009
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment