Fun And Expectations

What is fun? In the dictionary, it means Enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure from the things you do. We all have our own fun, a fun which is defined by us, our own beliefs, something which makes us smile, makes us happy, cleared from worries. That feeling. Is there something that everyone can do together and have fun? As in something common in everyone? If we humans are considered similar in a way, should there be something like that we can consider fun to everyone? I wonder. 

Yesterday, learned about the term expectations, something that usually you want for your own benefit. And to think, I have been living in my own expectations, only to bring myself down; I'm so used to it, that the down time only affects me for a short while. It may not seem that it was an expectation, but it was. I thought it would happen, not now, but later on, and it seems that now, it will not. So, why expect the unexpected, something that isn't there yet, so just suck up and let go. Aspire instead of expecting, although it is fine to have them. 

You have friends. 

Both of you fall for someone. 

You know but he doesn't. 

What do you do? 

Is it war? 

Or just be the nice guy? 

A puss that give in? 

I don't know really. 

There are many things I don't know. 

From Afar